Attractiveness and how can you get it ( maybe you are already attractive )

 Attractiveness is a very subjective concept and can vary according to preferences and people.

Specifically, what you find attractive, believe it or not, is tied to the environment you grew up in and what geographic area you live in. And that's because? Because beauty standards change from region to region. In Europe, for example, the beautiful body for a woman is one that will be quite thin, but if we look in Mauritania, in its ceremonies we can find that they glorify the beauty of the obese woman.

But apart from the geographical location, the family environment, etc. there are some typical traits that make a man attractive and in this article today we will analyze those traits.

The characteristics that make a woman attractive :

1. Self confidence. 

Here normally I don't think analysis is necessary, but if you've read other articles or watched YouTube videos, you've definitely seen or read about confidence and it really is the beginning and the end. Maybe for those of you who are timidly taking your first steps to attract the person you like, you haven't understood the power of confidence and yes, I was once that person.

Confidence isn't just speaking your mind without caring what others think. It is also the power that radiates in the way you walk, in the way you move your hair, in the way you look others in the eye, and the feeling you get when you leave the house and say to yourself ``Yes! I'm very beautiful.'' All this creates an aura that is perceived by those around you and charms people.

However, self-confidence is different from egoism, ``I am great and others are inferior.'' This is an insidious misconception and needs attention because then you become arrogant.

Now, how you can gain confidence is a big topic that needs discussion. But you can keep in mind that you need to take care of yourself. Loving and caring for ourselves is not evil, worshiping ourselves by diminishing others is evil.

2. Courtesy and good manners.

Politeness and good manners in our minds tend to be directly associated with femininity. It is no coincidence that successful women show a femininity and gentleness that excites their fans.

A woman's good manners show her confidence, her superiority and that she doesn't need anyone to be a decent woman. Also, politeness and good manners can make a man fall in love instantly and that's because whether he realizes it or not, he feels that this woman will take care of him and treat him well, make his life beautiful.

The way you treat others, the way you speak, your expressions, etc. they have the ability to create positive impressions and therefore can definitely make you 50-60% more attractive.

Important note: Leave your sensitivity in moderation, you should show your soft side which can be emotional, but you should not show weakness.

3.Sense of humor

Humor is very important to win someone's sympathy. It essentially shows a high IQ, as making someone laugh requires insight and empathy in order to create the right situations to make the other person laugh.

Humor shows a friendly and cultured spirit. It makes a person approachable and interesting and of course it is no coincidence that many people from ancient times to today believe that laughter is medicine. Laughter helps us relieve tension and stress, enhances our creativity, and helps us develop our relationships with others, let alone the person we're trying to attract attention to.

Important note :

Humor ceases to be humor when we offend another human being. Then our attractiveness decreases as this is associated with low self-confidence.

4.Glow up and natural appearance

Physical appearance also plays an important role in attractiveness for many people, although this is very subjective as we have already mentioned. But the physical appearance and the way in which you can take advantage of the "strong" parts of your body, can upgrade your self-confidence and, by extension, your attractiveness.

Here are some things you can do to upgrade your look:

Keep your skin clean and glowing:

Use products (preferably from the drugstore rather than the supermarket) that will help cover, for example, the pores on your skin. But the best thing you can do is to consult a dermatologist first for the best possible result and to avoid any allergies.

Drink a lot of water:

I'm sure it's something you've heard, but seriously, drinking water is very important. Try drinking enough water (about 1 liter) for a week and you will see incredible results.

You will see your skin moisturized, the functionality of your brain will increase, many toxins will disappear because water is a natural solvent, etc. but always as I have repeated, moderation is needed, the limit should not be exceeded.

Keep your hair clean and get a proper haircut:

Well-groomed wool attracts attention, especially in men.

Hair can highlight your facial features and give them a beautiful glow. Even if you don't have the money to go to the salon, it's important to keep your hair clean and shiny.

You can use hair oil or hair mask to strengthen your hair roots and add shine, but again it's a good idea to get an expert's opinion before using any product.

Cheer up:

Smiling is one of the most powerful and useful tools of attractiveness. Smiling is directly linked to empathy and makes you very approachable and pleasant.

It is very reasonable, especially in adolescence, for girls to want to be closed and serious, but really a smile is a very powerful weapon. No man wants a sad and miserable girl by his side. Men are attracted to smiling women who are having a good time and enjoying their life.

But I didn't say hide your feelings. If you  feel sad it would be good to show it, just don't choose the depression.

Now, to have a great smile, don't forget to brush your teeth, use mouthwash, and possibly floss. Practice so that your smile looks beautiful and cute and don't be afraid to show it, I'm sure it will work.

Keep your nails clean:

It may sound silly, but clean nails do play a role.

Have you ever seen a person approach you with dirty fingernails? If so, did you feel uncomfortable? The majority will answer "yes".

Neat and clean nails show that you take care of yourself.

It doesn't necessarily mean they have to be long or manicured, just clean and if you can paint them a color that will compliment your eyes and possibly your clothes that will be a plus for you.

Wear clothes that match each other and find your own style:

Finding your style takes time. . . And money. . .

But that is not all. The sense of fashion and style is connected with the ability to be able to correctly combine the clothes you have in your wardrobe with each other to achieve a beautiful result.

Your own personal style will come from your psyche and finding what you really want to be and how you really feel takes time and to be honest I don't think you need to rush it. Take a deep breath, relax and just take care of yourself. On a weekend when you will have time, sit down and look on pinterest or in general on the internet for different combinations of clothes and colors. Find what you like and apply it.

Exercise and good nutrition: 

Physical exercise combined with good nutrition can lead to a dream result of a great body. Unfortunately or fortunately a well-proportioned body is attractive and let's not kid ourselves, I don't think there are many women on the planet who think his body is perfect.

Let's be clear first of all that whether you are a thin or a chubby woman you should not be ashamed of your body.

You are beautiful just the way you are and I truly believe that.

Exercising and eating right will help you get the body of your dreams and, by extension, gain the confidence that you now know leads to attractiveness.

When you strive for the perfect body, you know that you are good enough and beautiful enough because you have gotten to know your body and its strengths and weaknesses, so you don't need confirmation.

Finally, when it comes to good nutrition, you should know that good meals during the day, which are full of proteins and vitamins, can help your psyche.

Research has shown that the food we eat determines our psychology and it's no coincidence.

So don't forget to eat healthy and exercise even for a little while. You will see the pleasant results and be happy with yourself

Finally, you must remember that beauty comes from within your soul and this is not ironic at all because I know this phrase is not always enough to comfort, but I understand your concerns and I sincerely believe that you will succeed.

Attraction is not a set of rules, nor a complicated equation to solve.

It is something purely subjective and it is very important to understand that you are enough, to finally feel good about yourself.

You shouldn't push yourself to be liked, because at some point you will get tired and that is completely normal.

Feel good about yourself, cultivate the beauty of your soul and everything else will follow.